Friends with Benefits Blog
The Rise of the Young Dominatrix
Kink is easier on the ear than BDSM. When you utter those four letters peoples minds leap to dungeons and dominatrix’s, chains and whips. Whereas kink can be described as anything that you add to your usual sex life. I don’t mean switching from missionary every once in a while! Casual sex now is where people are finding that outlet to explore their wildest desires.
Women are now reaching out through online dating sites to find that kink partner and aren’t afraid of it sitting proudly in their bios. Long walks on the beach and baking has been replaced with humiliation and flogging....
Rise of the Polymory Relationship in 2019
Sex and realtionships with multiple partners has practised for centuries. It wasn’t just the Romans and Greeks who were famed for their orgies!
North America, Europe, Africa, Asia have all been practising this sexual act for just as long and everyone adding their own different twist.
For a long while that extra partner/partners has been seen as taboo. A dirty weekend away. Something you do to spice up a marriage.
But only now has there been an ever increasing acceptance of this ‘alternative’ relationship dynamic. Kink, Sub/Dom and BDSM were thrust into the public...
Forget about the January blues with a New Sex Buddy
January can be a hard month. After having some well-deserved time off in Christmas and indulging on rich foods, wine and chocolates, you get thrown back into the full grind of work and into the reality of being single in the ever competitive race to find someone significant to share your life with. What makes it worse is Valentine’s Day is just around the corner so the pressure to have someone in your life is continuous.
There is nothing wrong with being single and different people need different things to be happy. So for those who either don’t want a serious relationship at this...
Christmas and Adult Dating
Christmas is just around the corner and with that in mind we have some tips on how to improve your chances of scoring this winter.
Firstly update your profile - make it festive, and up to date. You should update your profile constantly with new photos and content so that other members know you are active and serious about a not so serious relationship. Adult dating sites run in the same way as general dating sites, as do the members and what they want from a profile. Having an interesting profile to read will improve your chances of meeting a potential fuckbuddy. With Christmas...
Fantasies and Dating
Fantasies have always been apparent in relationships, whether they are discussed and acted out or hidden away out of site, they have always been there but I thought it would be a good idea to discuss sharing them and also some Christmas related ones.
When to bring up your fantasies to your partner?
This really depends on the relationship and the level of interaction you have with one another. If the relationship is one fuelled on sex then clearly bringing up each other’s fantasies is a normal occurrence and if you’re compatible and open sexually then there shouldn’t be much...
Adult Dating and the approach to take for a first time user
Adult dating can be a daunting place to a first time user as more often than not people are used to a more mainstream approach to meeting someone online and for their intentions to be meeting someone for romantic relations rather than rampant sex. However it is important to note that if anything the adult dating sites out there are less likely to waste your time regardless of your motive. Let's say you're looking for love online and you join a dating site; you are then met with people who only want to have sex, and send you copious messages and pictures to try and entice you. Now let's say...
A true Friendship is One With Benefits
Friends With Benefits is a term we are surely all familiar with, but for those that aren't what exactly does it mean? Essentially it's an agreement between two people (friends or strangers upon initially meeting) in which they agree to no strings attached sex - a relationship without the pressure of a relationship and all the boundaries that possibly come with it.
This concept has become increasingly better known over the years and has worked its way into our culture so much that even Hollywood made a movie about it. So the question on everyone's lips is - how do you find a friends...
