Adult dating can be a daunting place to a first time user as more often than not people are used to a more mainstream approach to meeting someone online and for their intentions to be meeting someone for romantic relations rather than rampant sex. However it is important to note that if anything the adult dating sites out there are less likely to waste your time regardless of your motive. Let's say you're looking for love online and you join a dating site; you are then met with people who only want to have sex, and send you copious messages and pictures to try and entice you. Now let's say you only want to find someone to have fun with and you are met with people who only want a serious relationship. With casual dating sites the intentions of the members are pretty clear from the start and therefore the whole process is far less time consuming with regards to other members being like minded.
So how should you approach adult dating if you are a first time user? Well really no different than a general dating site, be honest and upfront. Not everybody you meet on a site like friends with benefits is going to want to meet with you for a one night stand. Everyone wants something in particular, as do you and you just might not be a good matchup. Therefore you should be honest from the start in what you want and what your interests are. It is more important you meet someone who wants the same thing than it is to just meet up with someone. You both want the experience to be a positive one and therefore if your intentions are to just meet up with anybody than the experience wont be as pleasant at it should.
Start of slow. Don't just message straight away asking someone if they want to meet up. Take time to read their profile and get to know them, through introductory messages. Reading someone's profile is like window shopping and once you see the item you want then you can take the next steps.
Your profile is important. Flip the window shopping metaphor around; if your profile isn't good then no one will take you seriously. Make sure you fill out your interests and upload a few pictures for the best chance of getting laid.
These simple guidelines will help any newbie along the way to enjoying the world of online sex dating. Friends with benefits is a free to join site so why not give it a try? You only pay to become a full member to trial it now for free.