The Rise of the Young Dominatrix

7 Jun 2019 - 15:46
2019 has seen the rise of the young dominatrix

Kink is easier on the ear than BDSM. When you utter those four letters peoples minds leap to dungeons and dominatrix’s, chains and whips. Whereas kink can be described as anything that you add to your usual sex life. I don’t mean switching from missionary every once in a while! Casual sex now is where people are finding that outlet to explore their wildest desires.

Women are now reaching out through online dating sites to find that kink partner and aren’t afraid of it sitting proudly in their bios. Long walks on the beach and baking has been replaced with humiliation and flogging.

But on that theme of baking. Introducing food; eating strawberries and cream off of a lover. Tracing your lovers skin with an ice cube sending shivers not just to the spine. Even pulling hair and a firm hand around someone’s throat whilst kissing all full under the guise of being “kinky.”

It’s no secret that the book ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ brought kink into the mainstream with (pun intended) a bang. Jettisoning the words and roles of dominant and submissive into the public consciousness. But possibly these roles have been watered down by the scenes on page and screen.

However along with mainstream attention comes misinformation, which is why many in the kink community dislike Fifty Shades. Saying it makes BDSM seem to fluffy and playful. It’s serious and sexy. Dark but enlightening.

More young women than ever are exploring the world of BDSM. That little secret drawer doesn’t have to be filled with novelty sex toys; pink fluffy handcuffs and the bullet vibrator that doesn’t quite hit the (G) spot. Women now are purchasing their weapons of mass masochism with the sole intent of fulfilling their own sexual proclivities.

Women now have no issue with taking control of their partners and flipping those old conventions on their head. Telling him that, if he's good, you'll let him have his way with you after you're done, but if he doesn't obey, well, you'll both will have to try again another night, won't you?
Entry level dominance can be as simple as running a feather over the males body. Trailing fingers and fingernails down sensitive areas. Building the urge to give into lust by gently tickling the most sensitive areas until you reach his genitals and still force him to stay still while you touch him or give him oral sex.
The ante can be upped even more with the introduction of a small paddle or riding crop issuing a light swat on the thighs or bottom every time an instruction isn’t followed by his mistress.
Women are more empowered and liberated sexually more than ever. Casual sex more than ever isn’t frowned upon but lauded. A girl has needs and she is most definitely fulfilling them; ticking off some bedroom bucket list wishes too.
No matter what you do, as long as you have your partner's consent, you get to choose and you get to be in charge. Now get out there! Make sure you put that in your bio’s ladies and gents; let the world know you want to let that kinky side out.